| Location | Scunthorpe |
| Age | 56 years |
| Cause of Death | Organ Failure |
| Date of Birth | 5/1947 |
| Date of Death | 4/2004 |
| Visitors | 425 since 27/05/2007 |
| Creator |
Robert Andrew Lambie this was my dad who sadly passed away on 3rd April 2004,aged 56 from Scunthorpe,he was also dad to my Brother Andrew,my half sisters Gem and Sophie and my half brother Robbie.
My dad was a very special person to me as all dads are to their children,i was a typical "Daddys Girl" since as long as i can remember,Sadly my parents divorced when i was 15 years old which i took this very hard,i still saw my dad everyday and was still as close to him.
In time as live moves on he met and set up family with someone else which was fine i was pleased for him to see him happy again,he then when on to have my half sisters Gem and Sophie and my half brother Robbie,who are now aged 13,12 and 10.
Unfortunatly this relationship didnt work out either,so he moved in with me this lasted 6 months,while he was with me he turned to drink, i tried my best to help him,it was hard i only could do so much and put up with so much because i have my son,it was upsetting for him aswell to see his Grandad in such a state,so my dad left and got hiself a flat,he met some "new friends" thats what he called them,i just call them drunks and users.
Over the next 2 years he got worse i still made sure i still saw him often but he was too far gone now,in time he wasnt eating not washing,not looking after hiself,i kept trying to help him but he was stuck in a rut.It was hard for me watching my best friend my dad doing this to hiself,it was such a shame as this was the same man who NEVER drank,and would be disgusted by someone like this,15 years earlier he had been a successful buisness man with a nice house ,nice car,nice holidays,fantastic wife and 2 children.This hurt me and still hurts me so much.
He was in and out of hospital the last year of his life due to getting with the wrong crowd and getting beaten up,this took its toll he was a very weak man by this time,on the particular week he died i fell out with him and we wasnt speaking, i got a phone call in the early hours on the 3rd April 04 saying he had been taken to hospital and had suffered a heart attack,i went straight up there he was heavily sedated in intensive care suffering from major organ failure, me and my family sat with him till 10:30am then it was decided by me and my brother it was time to turn the machines off.I never got chance to say goodbye. This was the hardest thing about it because we wasnt speaking at the time,i never got the chance to tell him how much i love him and how special he was to me,my son never got chance to say goodbye to his Grandad.
People say all the time he knew how much i loved him but its not the same as saying goodbye and love you in person to him. I just hope and pray he knew how special he was to me,Andrew,Gem,Spohie and Robbie and his grandson Scott.
I do see my half brother and sisters still its a shame though because they never knew the dad i knew before the drink took over,they only know him the way he was before he died.
If there is something up there and he is watching me i just hope he knows ill never forget him,neither will any of his family he was such a special,loving man,and a fantastic dad,he was and still is my best friend,
love you lots dad xxxxxxxxxxx
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XXX PAULINE XXX
When I have no one to turn to
And I am feeling kind of low,
When there is no one to talk to
And nowhere I want to go,
I search deep within myself
It is the love inside my heart
That lets me know my Angels are there
Even though we are miles apart.
A smile then appears upon my face
And the sun begins to shine.
I hear a voice, so soft and sweet
Saying, 'Everything will be just fine'
It may seem that I am alone
But I am never by myself at all.
Whenever I need my Angels near
All I have to do is call.
An Angel's love is always true
On that you can depend.
They will always stand behind you
And will always be your friend.
Through darkest hours and brightest days
Our Angel's see us through
They smile when we are happy, and will cry when we are blue..
love and ((((HUGZ)))))
Pauline Lambie Fleming xxx
So sorry
I feel for you Melanie i know what its like when your dad dies my dad was 40yrs when he died he was a alcoholic i never got the chance to say goodbye either, your dad will be watching over you & your family now. I found that GTS has helped me i hope it helps you too, there are so many people who have been in the same situation as you, so you dont have to feel alone in your grief. Takecare & godbless.xx
i'm sorry for your loss , i too wasn't talking to my brother when he died my biggest regrett in life but i try not to think bout it too much cos it just eats you away , be strong i'm sure he will be looking down on you and will have forgiven you !!! xxx
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